With broken hearts, we announce the sudden passing of Tonguç Omer Gulder on Sunday, January 12, 2020, at the age of 38. He was Tonguç to his family and Omer (nickname “O-G”) to his friends. He is survived by his mother Semra Gokirmak (Marcel), and his father Omer Lutfi Gulder (Caroline), his stepbrother Stefan (Emily) and stepsister Lauren (Johan). He will be lovingly remembered by his aunt Harika, cousin Taygun and many extended family members in Turkey. He will be greatly missed by his many, many, many friends. Tonguç Omer was also known and loved by many others throughout his short life. He helped countless people with his beautiful big heart and endless efforts to make their lives better. This was true on the soccer field and in his social work; helping youth on the streets and helping families in need.
Friends and family are invited to celebrate the life of Tonguç Omer in the Sacred Space of Beechwood Funeral Services, 280 Beechwood Avenue, Ottawa, on Sunday, January 19, 2020, at 1pm, a reception will follow.
In lieu of flowers, donations in memory of Tonguç Omer can be made to www.kidsportottawa.ca .
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Laura Collins
My sincerest condolences to Omer's family during this difficult time.
I was thoroughly shocked to get the news about the sudden passing of my friend and old co-worker.
When I started my new role at the YSB downtown drop-in a few years back, he was the person who welcomed me to the team with open arms, and took me under his wing.
We quickly became friends and I felt like I could always count on his support whatever I was going through.
Omer was one of the most positive people I have ever met, and he always had a way of making everyone feel at ease.
You could see his job was his calling, he was so great with all the youth he was working with, and I never saw him give up on anyone, no matter how tough the situation was.
I imagine you up there somewhere, Omer, wearing your beloved ManU scarf.
Rest easy, my friend.
Sylvain
I`m very sad to have learned that Omer left us so soon. He will be missed by everyone who had the honor and pleasure to have known him. I`m sure god reserved Omer a special space next to him.
Darren Theoret
I was shocked to get the news of Omer's passing. He was a lovely man and taken too soon. The world was a better place when he was here.
Mylène Toulgoat
Dear Semra,
My sincere condolences to you and your family.
Maria Milito D'Orazio
I had the pleasure and privilege of working with Omer. I always enjoyed our talks. You are in my thoughts and prayers during this difficult time. Please accept my deepest condolences for your great loss.
Sincerely,
Maria
L. . K .
I am deeply saddened by the loss of Omer my condolences to the family. I knew Omer through high School. Omer was kind and generous...all loved him.
With love and deepest sympathy as we remember Omer. May his Soul Rest In Peace.
Meaghan
Omer, you truly were a legend buddy. You pulled me through some of the darkest times in my life and were so supportive of me transitioning into parenthood. I wouldn't be the woman I am if it wasn't for people like you in my life. Working with you on the CPO video we did was incredible... I want to deny the fact youre gone but I know its true. RIP Omer, thanks for everything you did for me and for all the youth at YSB.
emilie kelly
A shining light in the darkest of worlds. That's how I remember Omer. I will never let myself forget how wonderful, silly and caring this man was. He was one of the people who helped me get sober and honestly just helped save my life. He would make me laugh on dreary, very dark days I spent in the drop in when I was going through hell. You could always count on him to cheer you up. I'm honestly devasted that I will never get to speak to Omer again. I wish I had the chance to tell him how much he helped save and change my life.
The world has again, lost a truly wonderful soul.
Omer, thank you for everything you did in your short time on this planet.
I'll miss you forever.
See you on the other side.
xo emilie. ?
Ashley rutledge
Eleven months, you've been
in heaven. Like a
butterfly leaving a
cocoon, you left to become
who you were always
ultimately meant to be. Still
it gets no easier, this
knowing you're gone, and is
as impossible to comprehend
now as it was then .
Until we meet again my friend? you are missed beyond belief :(
It was an honour to have worked with Omer through the City of Ottawa. His positive energy was a beacon of light reaching out to provide opportunities for growth for all he came in contact with.