With broken hearts, we announce the sudden passing of Tonguç Omer Gulder on Sunday, January 12, 2020, at the age of 38. He was Tonguç to his family and Omer (nickname “O-G”) to his friends. He is survived by his mother Semra Gokirmak (Marcel), and his father Omer Lutfi Gulder (Caroline), his stepbrother Stefan (Emily) and stepsister Lauren (Johan). He will be lovingly remembered by his aunt Harika, cousin Taygun and many extended family members in Turkey. He will be greatly missed by his many, many, many friends. Tonguç Omer was also known and loved by many others throughout his short life. He helped countless people with his beautiful big heart and endless efforts to make their lives better. This was true on the soccer field and in his social work; helping youth on the streets and helping families in need.
Friends and family are invited to celebrate the life of Tonguç Omer in the Sacred Space of Beechwood Funeral Services, 280 Beechwood Avenue, Ottawa, on Sunday, January 19, 2020, at 1pm, a reception will follow.
In lieu of flowers, donations in memory of Tonguç Omer can be made to www.kidsportottawa.ca .
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Dana
Brenda Page
I had the pleasure of working with Omer at the City of Ottawa. He always made me laugh so hard it hurt. He was great at his job, always going the extra mile. You will be missed Omer. May you rest in peace.
Alvy
Rest in paradise Omer. You have touched and changed so many lives including mine. You will be dearly missed by many. Thank you for helping and understanding me through my toughest day. I am truly saddened that you have been taken too soon. My condolences to his family.
Miss you Omer.
Ronald Matyas
From the first moment that I was introduced to Omer, I recognized a genuine and kind soul. I had the opportunity to work with him in different capacities and always appreciated his devotion to helping others and humble personality. Rest in Peace my friend.
Megan Davey
Such tragic heart breaking news. Omer will always be remembered for his kind spirit, love of social work and sense of humor.
Rest in paradise. You have impacted me and so many other youth through YSB. ♡
Sarah Newell
Everyone could always count on Omer to put a big smile on their face. He was a genuinely empathetic person who could connect with anyone. One of the funniest people I knew, and one of the smartest. I will miss the ridiculous pranks you and Mark got into, or telling my daughter that your are related to Aladdin. You will be greatly missed. Rest In Peace my friend.
Jason Mulvihill
Omer,
I had some of the best times of my life with you! Nothing I can say can take away the void you left by leaving everyone so soon. May you rest in peace.
Much love,
Mulvi
Zack and Hannah
We are both beyond heartbroken to hear this news... Omer did so much for both of us when we were living downtown and trying to find a place together. We owe him so much for the fact that we are still together to this day, with a roof over our heads. Our deepest condolences to the family. He will be remembered fondly.
Melinda Doucet
Omer, Je m’ennuie déjà de ton sourire contagieux. Je te voyais pas aussi souvent que j’aurais aimé dans les dernières années.... mais cela fait parti de la beauté de ton amitié. Les bons amis sont comme des étoiles. Tu les vois pas toujours, mais tu sais qu’il sont toujours là. Tu étais vrai un rayon soleil et apportait la joie partout. Un humour unique, mais cela fait parti de ton charme . On t’oubliera jamais. Sending you a hug in heaven... RIP my dear friend Omer love
Josée Desjardins
Omer aka (Gucci) to Em and I.
I can’t believe your gone my friend .
You are already missed by many. We laughed , we cried . Life lessons ! You know what I’m talking about . Hakim , Val and the gang , we had some good laughs!
RIP Gucci and now you’ll be with your best friend Jamie that you missed so much.
May your spirit and infectious smile live on! Our sincere condolences to your family xo
Although my time spent in Omers presence was limited, he managed to make such a large impact in my life, my sons life and the lives of so many more. In a time where I really needed someone to believe in me, he did. He helped me in so many ways, as he did SO MANY. He was a peace keeper, a mentor, a friend, and had one of the biggest hearts I've had the honour of passing.
I am thankful to have had the chance to experience his light in my life.
Until we meet again, rest easy Omer .