With broken hearts, we announce the sudden passing of Tonguç Omer Gulder on Sunday, January 12, 2020, at the age of 38. He was Tonguç to his family and Omer (nickname “O-G”) to his friends. He is survived by his mother Semra Gokirmak (Marcel), and his father Omer Lutfi Gulder (Caroline), his stepbrother Stefan (Emily) and stepsister Lauren (Johan). He will be lovingly remembered by his aunt Harika, cousin Taygun and many extended family members in Turkey. He will be greatly missed by his many, many, many friends. Tonguç Omer was also known and loved by many others throughout his short life. He helped countless people with his beautiful big heart and endless efforts to make their lives better. This was true on the soccer field and in his social work; helping youth on the streets and helping families in need.
Friends and family are invited to celebrate the life of Tonguç Omer in the Sacred Space of Beechwood Funeral Services, 280 Beechwood Avenue, Ottawa, on Sunday, January 19, 2020, at 1pm, a reception will follow.
In lieu of flowers, donations in memory of Tonguç Omer can be made to www.kidsportottawa.ca .
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Lori Lavoie
Hoang Sa OT6
On behalf of the Ottawa Fusion Soccer Club and his teammates, we sincerely express our condolences to Omer’s family, relatives and friends. Omer will always be remembered as a great team player. He was a sensational player. His competitive style and skills on the field were only surpassed by his incredible positive influence and zest for life off the field.
Rest in peace dear teammate and truly friend.
Behrokh Goodarzi
This world needs a lot more people like you.
you are missed
Steve Ethier
Rest easy OG.
So happy to've run into you a few months back and had the chance to catch up. Reading these comments, sure sounds like you touched a lot of lives in a really positive way. Good on you my friend.
Vicki
I've known Omer for a short period of time but he definitely has had a positive impact on our office and the lives he touched. "Where ever a beautiful soul has been, there is a trail of beautiful memories." You will be missed. My thoughts and prayers are with the family during this difficult time. May you rest in peace Omer.
Rita Khavich
Omer, you were one of the nicest and friendliest people in the office. I may not have known you long, but in the short time we worked together, you became a friend, and I'm so thankful we had the chance to meet and share a few precious moments. It's still surreal that there will be no more passing moments in the aisles between the pods, no more chats in the servery... I can still picture your warm smile in my mind. You were taken from us way too soon - it doesn't seem fair at all. You were so caring and willing to go above and beyond the call of duty. You were one of my go-to people because I could always count on you to try. You were fun to talk to, we shared our jokes and our cultures with each other, and I could always go to you for help or advice with clients as well, making you an all-around joy to work with!
To the family - what an awful, tragic loss this is. I stand with you in the hurt. My prayers are with the whole family at this painful and difficult time. No words will lessen the blow but you can know that Omer was loved and is truly missed. He had such a wonderful presence, and made such a strong, positive impact on everyone he met and we can thank those closest to him for raising such an amazing person! I'm so sorry he's gone, but his memory does live on in the hearts of many, MANY people.
Louise Lamont
Dear Semra,
My sincerest condolences. My thoughts are with you. I am sending you all my love.
Louise
Faz Baksh
My most sincere condolences to Omer and Semra and families. I am very sorry for your loss. Take care of yourself in this extremely difficult time.
Jobbie
My Condolences to Omer's family, friends and colleagues. I am so sorry for the passing of such a dear person - Omer was such a wonderful colleague and friend and I am honored to have had the privilege of working with him. Omer, I wish I had the chance to thank you in person, to thank you for your smiles, your great humor, your positive outlook and uplifting conversations. It was always a pleasure to see you and talk to you. I am so grateful for the positive impact that you had in my life and the lives of so many others. May you rest in peace and may their be joy in your heart. <3 May we all find the strength to move forward and comfort in the positive memories we have of you.
Galina and Tony
Dear Semra,
We never met Omer, but many obviously have very fond memories of your son. You are in our hearts and prayers. Love and hugs, Tony and Galina
My sincerest condolences to Omer's family. He will be greatly missed by many. He had the ability to make you smile and truly feel happy when you were around him. I had the opportunity to work with Omer in various capacities at the City of Ottawa and will never forget his infectious smile and genuine laughter. R. I. P my friend.