In loving memory of Natasha Sita Anderson (Perera), born on September 16, 1977, we celebrate her life and mourn her passing on February 1st, 2024, surrounded by her family after being suddenly hospitalized and overwhelmed by a rapid onset and inexplicable physical illness. Natasha was a compassionate soul, radiating unwavering love and empathy for all.
Though her life was taken from us, her beautiful soul is everlasting. Natasha found solace in her friends and family, both in person and in her virtual community. An avid reader, she immersed herself in the world of literature. Natasha was an ardent advocate for the underdog, dedicating her efforts to equity and fairness in all her pursuits.
She leaves behind a cherished legacy embraced by her beloved family: husband Mark, children Lena (11) and Makai (8), brother Hershel, sister-in-law Julie, and nephews Krish and Aary. Her parents, Asha (Sam) and Hiran (Lizzy), were integral parts of her life, each contributing to the extraordinary spirit she embodied. In addition, her extended family, including loving aunts, uncles, and cousins, played pivotal roles in shaping the rich tapestry of her life.
Natasha's friendships stood as a testament to her generous spirit and genuine care for others. Her friends were not just companions but her chosen family, each holding a special place in her heart, forging bonds that transcended mere friendship.
As a heartfelt tribute to Natasha, we kindly request that you play "Adore" by Prince on your own time—a song that beautifully encapsulates the enduring beauty and love she brought into our lives.
Friends are invited to gather at the Sacred Space of the Beechwood National Memorial Centre, 280 Beechwood Ave. Ottawa on Friday, February 9th, after 12noon. A celebration of Natasha's Life will be held at 1 p.m. followed by a reception in her honor.
In lieu of flowers, please consider a donation in Natasha's name to the Canadian Children's Literacy Foundation.
As we bid farewell to her physical presence, let us carry forward her legacy of love, kindness, and joy. Though she may be absent in body, her spirit will forever live on in the hearts of those fortunate enough to have known her.
Digital Guestbook
Megan McSpadden
Kim Dixon Knight
Dear Tash, I never thought that I would have to write something like this. Please forgive me as I don’t have the right words to describe the love I have for you and the how much we will all miss you. You are a great friend, frankly you are amongst the few of my chosen sisters. My mom often called you her surrogate daughter. I will love you always. My sister. My friend.
Naomie Matilus
Natasha was a true gem, an angel on earth. We connected online through bookstagram and we chatted about books that we were loving. She was so kind and always a ray of sunshine through each and every interaction. Her legacy of kindness lives on in our hearts. She will truly be missed in that space and may she rest in peace. 💜🕊️
Aniya Mercadel
I met Tash on bookstagram and I am forever thankful that we crossed paths. She was light to me and always very supportive and kind. I will always remember our conversations and virtual hugs. Thank you for everything Tash! Rest well Beauty, until we meet again.
Sharon Lalvani
Suresh & I remember Natasha so fondly the few times we met her during her visits to Colombo. Her beautiful smile and warmth will never be forgotten. We are listening to Adore by Prince while writing this. RIP Natasha. Asha, our condolences to you, Mark and the whole family. Sending you hugs. Mohini, Suresh & Sharon
Manoj Raheja
Tash - reading all these beautiful comments makes it so easy to spot your super power. You lift people. I always felt your support and walked away feeling a few feet taller after speaking with you, and I see I’m not the only one.
While you guide and support your loved ones from up there, know that Payal and I will do our best to support them down here.
We love you and you will be missed.
Indrani Nanayakkara
Although I have not met Natasha I know her mom Asha very well through school time. Knowing Asha, I am sure Natasha too is a lovely, kind girl. May she rest in peace.
Ishali
Natasha was a beautiful soul. I remember the day when she came over with her mum Asha to my place and relished the Indian food I prepared for her.
Her wonderful smile and sparkling eyes is what comes to mind when I think of her.
We were at her wedding and I used to see pictures of her beautiful kids when Asha shared them.
It is incredibly sad to know that she has left us. May she be in peace.
Prayers for Natasha’s family.
Déja Campbell
To Tash my book boo,
You always led with love and kindness. You were and continue to be a light. I’ll always remember your genuine kind spirit. Although our time was brief you left an everlasting impact, you’ll be greatly missed. I lit my candle for you, it smells amazing! Rest well my friend.
ShaRhonda Wise
My Dearest Tash, I am so thankful to have gotten to know you and to consider you a friend. You were the sweetest person and always so kind to me and so many others. You made an impact in the book community and your presence will be missed. I can’t say thank you enough for being unapologetically yourself. Thank you for sharing your love for books with me and many others.
Rest well, sincerely ReadnLiftwithShar.
Tash and I bonded over our love of author Tal Bauer. She dropped into my Instagram DMs to offer to be my emotional support person for my future Tal books. From there our friendship bloomed. I could talk to her about absolutely anything and I valued her input so much while I was writing my debut.
I feel incredibly fortunate she trusted me to read her book so that I got to experience her talent. And oh boy did she have talent!
I got to finally meet her in person in January of this year and she was every bit as lovely face to face as she was in dms, texts and countless voice messages.
I am beyond heartbroken for all those who loved her. It feels so incredibly unfair that we have lost such a bright light.
Our last conversation a couple days before she passed had been about grief. And I’d like to leave you with her words.
“To have had them at all is the best part.”