It is with profound sadness that we announce the passing of James (Jamie) Arthur Cotter at the age of 64, in Kanata, Ontario.
Born in Brandon, Manitoba, Jamie was the beloved son of the late James Arthur and Ellen Muriel. He is survived by his devoted and loving wife, Marie Isabelle Stefcyzk (née Anderson), and his cherished sons, Andrew Hamish (Madison Lee) and Douglas Francis. He was a loving brother to Jane Ellen Trites (Glenn) and a proud uncle to Sara, Morgan, Maeve, Brent, and Grant.
Jamie served Canada with honour and distinction for over 42 years in the Royal Canadian Navy, retiring at the rank of Captain (RCN). He was the Commanding Officer of HMCS CATARAQUI, a position where he served with tremendous pride. Jamie’s leadership and dedication later took him across the world, highlighted by his appointment as the Canadian Defence Attaché in Seoul where he forged lasting relationships and helped strengthen ties between Canada and the Korean community — this exposure to the beautiful country of Korea remained close to his heart long after his posting was complete.
An avid skier and cyclist, Jamie found joy and balance in the outdoors. He was an active and dedicated volunteer at the Calabogie Freestyle Ski Club, contributing his time and leadership to help foster a positive and successful environment for athletes and families alike. He was also passionate about travelling and seeing the world in his retirement with his wife Marie.
Jamie held degrees from Carleton University (BA), Queen’s University (MBA), and earned his Master of Defence Studies from the Canadian Forces College. Jamie was a man of intellect, high integrity, and quiet resolve—always ready to step up when leadership was needed. Jamie will be remembered as a builder of bridges, a bearer of diplomacy, and a quiet pillar of strength.
Jamie maintained a close bond with both his cherished sons, forged through a shared love of skiing. Together, they created countless and deeply treasured memories travelling the world, chasing snow and adventure as a family.
A service will be held on Tuesday, July 22nd at 9:30 a.m. at Beechwood National Memorial Center, in Ottawa. Serving military members are invited to wear dress uniforms with medals, and veterans are invited to wear medals.
In lieu of flowers, donations in Jamie’s memory may be made to Wounded Warriors Canada, an organization he was passionate about.
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Gordon Basaraba CPO2(Ret’d)
Robert.mclennan
I always enjoyed working with Jamie, his leadership and caring of his sailors made him the exceptional leader that he was. My condolences to the family.
CPO2 Robert McLennan CD
Keith and Claire Anderson
All our deepest condolences and sympathy on Jamie's passing.
All our love and cares are with you.
Michele Rae (née McDermott) and Bruce Rae
Our deepest condolences to Marie and sons. We both have the fondest memories of serving with Jamie at HMCS Carleton.
PO2 (Ret'd) Gregory Lick and Judy Garlough
Great sadness to see the passing of a great friend, best man, wonderful husband, father and brother and a truly inspirational leader and officer.
CPO1 Bouillon J.F.
Fair Winds and Following Seas, Sir. Thank you for your service and my deepest condolences to the family. R.I.P.
Tyler and Linda Goudie
Marie, Andrew and Douglas,
We were saddened to read of Jamie’s passing all too soon.
We have fond memories of you all as our next door neighbours on Centennial Lake in the years before you left for South Korea.
Many a time we thought of you all since then.
Please accept our deepest sympathies at this very difficult time.
Tyler and Linda
Gordon McLennan CPO1(Ret'd)
I was saddened to hear of Jamie’s passing. My condolences to his family for your loss. I worked with Jamie for several years, both in and out of the country. I have many fond memories of working with him. He was an excellent officer, a true leader, and a great guy! He was someone I am proud to call a friend. He is gone way too soon.
Calm seas and a following wind, shipmate Jamie.
Robert Johnston, Commander (Ret'd)
I was shocked ane saddened to hear of Jamie's untimely passing. He was a great officer with whom I had the honour to serve on numerous occasions. I wish fair winds and following seas to him and convey my deepest condolences to Marie and his sons.
Matthew Davies, Capt(N) Retd
Jamie always brought calm to a storm. He offered clarity and insight when problem solving. I served under his leadership when he was the Central Region Advisor. I trusted his advice and respected the example he set. Jamie touched many lives for good in the RCN and I expect he did exactly the same in his diplomatic role representing Canada abroad. Rest in peace Jamie, mission accomplished. To the Cotter family, my sincere condolences.
My sincere condolences to Jamie’s family. I am proud to have served with Jamie in the Port Security Unit.
Fair winds and following seas my friend.