It is with profound sadness that we announce the passing of James (Jamie) Arthur Cotter at the age of 64, in Kanata, Ontario.
Born in Brandon, Manitoba, Jamie was the beloved son of the late James Arthur and Ellen Muriel. He is survived by his devoted and loving wife, Marie Isabelle Stefcyzk (née Anderson), and his cherished sons, Andrew Hamish (Madison Lee) and Douglas Francis. He was a loving brother to Jane Ellen Trites (Glenn) and a proud uncle to Sara, Morgan, Maeve, Brent, and Grant.
Jamie served Canada with honour and distinction for over 42 years in the Royal Canadian Navy, retiring at the rank of Captain (RCN). He was the Commanding Officer of HMCS CATARAQUI, a position where he served with tremendous pride. Jamie’s leadership and dedication later took him across the world, highlighted by his appointment as the Canadian Defence Attaché in Seoul where he forged lasting relationships and helped strengthen ties between Canada and the Korean community — this exposure to the beautiful country of Korea remained close to his heart long after his posting was complete.
An avid skier and cyclist, Jamie found joy and balance in the outdoors. He was an active and dedicated volunteer at the Calabogie Freestyle Ski Club, contributing his time and leadership to help foster a positive and successful environment for athletes and families alike. He was also passionate about travelling and seeing the world in his retirement with his wife Marie.
Jamie held degrees from Carleton University (BA), Queen’s University (MBA), and earned his Master of Defence Studies from the Canadian Forces College. Jamie was a man of intellect, high integrity, and quiet resolve—always ready to step up when leadership was needed. Jamie will be remembered as a builder of bridges, a bearer of diplomacy, and a quiet pillar of strength.
Jamie maintained a close bond with both his cherished sons, forged through a shared love of skiing. Together, they created countless and deeply treasured memories travelling the world, chasing snow and adventure as a family.
A service will be held on Tuesday, July 22nd at 9:30 a.m. at Beechwood National Memorial Center, in Ottawa. Serving military members are invited to wear dress uniforms with medals, and veterans are invited to wear medals.
In lieu of flowers, donations in Jamie’s memory may be made to Wounded Warriors Canada, an organization he was passionate about.
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Michel Gagne
David Redpath
All our very best, from everyone in the Wargame Section at this time.
James and Nancy Follwell
We are so sorry to have lost a good friend so suddenly. We will always remember Jamie as a great, compassionate person and the consummate professional. To Marie and the Boys, we share in your loss and offer any help in the coming period - whatever you need, even soemone to just sit with.
Remy Yamuremye
I was deeply saddened to hear of your loss. Please accept my heartfelt condolences on the passing of your beloved husband. Words can never truly ease the pain of such a loss, but I hope you find comfort in the love that surrounds you and the memories you shared.
May his soul rest in eternal peace, and may you find strength in the support of those who care for you. You are in my thoughts and prayers during this difficult time.
With deepest sympathy,
Remy
Paul Edwards CPO1(ret'd)
My deepest condolences and sympathy on Jamie's sudden passing. I have fond memories of talks we had and his depth of knowledge and easy going way.
Fair winds and a following sea my friend.
Heather Collins, LCol (Ret’d)
It was a pleasure to serve with Jamie in the RCN and to continue our friendship after my transfer to the RCAF. His pride of service was clear and he leaves a great legacy . My condolences to his family and I hope their many wonderful memories are of consolation at this sad time. 🌹
Charles O'Dale CPO2 (ret'd)
I met James shortly after I left the regular forces to join the reserves. Over the years we shared experiences in naval reserve ships, racing sailboats at Britannia Yacht Club and we were at Nortel together. RIP my friend.
Cameron Jones
Sir I salute you one of the best officers I served under
RIP
Steven Kempton, LCdr (Ret’d)
I knew Jamie when we were both SLt’s and I am so shocked and saddened to learn of his passing. We enjoyed many laughs and even a ski trip to Vermont together. While we kept in touch only occasionally in later years, we followed each other and I was always pleased to see him revel in his service and his family. I will miss him. We have the watch, Jamie. Fair winds.
Broderick Mauro, CPO2 (Ret'd)
I've known Jamie for well over 35 years and can honestly say that from day one, I looked up to him. His leadership was a beacon of light and he always served the people he led. I'm saddened that he's crossed the bar so early in life. Fair winds and following seas, my friend.
My sincere condolences to the family and friends of Jamie, whom I have known since childhood. It is an unthinkably sudden loss and my heart goes out to all of you. Jamie, may you rest in peace and rise in glory.