Sadly, Pamela Jean Sanders, aged 61, passed away on November 7, 2024 at the Civic hospital in Ottawa.
Born in Fredericton, Pamela defied all odds by living with Muscular Dystrophy for her entire life. She is survived by her mother, Wilda Jean, her father, Roland Charles, her brother Greg and sister-in-law Erica, nephew Brian (wife Judit and daughter Elena), nephew Daniel (partner Olivia), niece Heather (husband Kyle and son Ben).
Her work history included the Federal government, the March of Dimes and Wild Willy's florist.
She overwintered in Florida with her parents for many years. She enjoyed the warm winters being able to get around in her cart. They drove around to many wonderful sites.
One of her great loves was interacting with her two nephews and niece. She adored them. From the day they were born, she would hold them in her arms. As they grew into toddlers, they would run around her like busy bees. She loved family vacations in Florida, cramming as many beach outings, cruises and amusement parks as time would allow. Eventually she would only be able to see them at her long term care home, or by facetime.
Despite her handicap, Pamela became a gifted Toronto Conservatory Student Pianist. She also obtained her Honours Baccalaureate in British History and Economics at Glendon College, York University. She was an avid needle pointer, producing many works that hang in several homes. She loved to read historical fiction and forensic crime novels. She was able to paint many pictures of various themes. She crocheted many small items. All of these talents became increasingly difficult for her to undertake as time went on.
Pamela’s greatest passion was Genealogy coupled with her in-depth knowledge of British History. Through her 30 plus years of researching all branches of her family, she was able to trace one family branch back to the Charlemagne Era.
Pam was supported by wonderful nurses, PSW's and support staff for the past 15 years at Granite Ridge long term care. Her last hours were under the care of Dr. Turk and nursing staff at the Civic Hospital.
Friends and Family are invited to pay respects at the Beechwood National Memorial Centre, 280 Beechwood Ave, Ottawa on Wednesday November 13th from 6:00 to 9:00 p.m. and Thursday November 14th after 12 noon. Funeral will be held in the Sacred Space on Thursday November 14th at 1 p.m. followed by interment and reception.
In lieu of flowers, please make donations to the Muscular Dystrophy Association of Canada.
Digital Guestbook
Susan Dolan
Deborah Duncan
Pam was such a talented, brave and beautiful person. My condolences and love to her entire family and close friends.
Heather Dauphinee Way
To the Sanders Family, our sincerest condolences on the loss of Pamela. I have such fond childhood memories of our family times together. My mom and dad loved Pam so much and talked about the Florida trips and other adventures you shared. To Pam, I so hope you’re pain free and dancing and enjoying everything. you were denied by muscular dystrophy.
Jenniffer Turney
To the Sanders Family, there is just not enough words or ways to describe just how deeply sorry am for your loss, this world will never be the same without her. Pam had such a Brillant mind, and we shared so many good memories and chat together, it was the best part of my day. She loved every single one of you so much. Brian, Daniel and Heather (feather) she was absolutely so proud of the many things' you guys accomplished and are accomplishing, you guys brought her so much joy. Pam has left an everlasting mark on my heart, for the many days were shared together, and ever at my age, she helped shape me into a better person and a better nurse. I really wish I could be there, to say goodbye, and just to tell you guys just how much she meant to me. Sending you guys so much love today.
Darryl Nason and Anna Marie Robinson
To Uncle Rollie, Aunt Wilda, cousin Greg, Erica and family
Anna Marie and I send heartfelt condolences out to you during this time.
I have wonderful memories of family reunions and visits in New Brunswick and in Ottawa.
I remember Pam as courageous, optimistic, witty and kind-hearted. May she rest in peace.
Our thoughts are with you all.
Mandy Samuelson
My sincere condolences to Pam’s family at this sad time. I met Pam at Granite Ridge where I worked for many years. Pam would often pop into the dining room before supper and we would have a chat. Pam was very special to me and I know she will be missed by everyone who knew and loved her.
Joan Cooper
Dear Sanders * FAMILY* Members. I was a fellow companion of your Desr Pam for the past several months at Granite Ridge. Once she found out I was a native Maritimer, she made sure that she introduced me to her Dear Dad. BLESSINGS. LOVE YOU MUCH and MORE
Daniel Weslake & Ruth Desjardins
Ruth and I were saddened to hear about Pam’s passing. We know that she and Greg were very close and can only imagine the emotional impact that this has had on him and the entire family. May you all find the strength and grace to deal with the loss.
Wherever a beautiful soul has been ,
There is a trail of beautiful memories!
So very sorry Greg, Erica and the Saunders family,
With kindness and caring, Sue