In Loving Memory of Norman Deardon Sayer
Norman Deardon Sayer was born in Glasgow, Scotland. The youngest and last of his four siblings, he grew up in a time of great change developing a sense of adventure that lasted throughout his life. His first great journey, at the tender age of 17, took him to South East Asia, the Middle East, and North Africa as a member of the British military—an experience he spoke of often, filled with cherished memories and vivid tales. That same adventurous spirit brought him to Canada, where he met the love of his life, Patricia Plunkett. They were married on May 31, 1952, in Ottawa, beginning a remarkable 73-year union grounded in love, laughter, and shared experiences.
Norman is survived by his loving wife, Patricia, by his daughter Pam Sayer (John Ward) and grandchildren Cailey and Sean and great grandchildren Esme and Rhys, by his son Rob Sayer (Ann Pushman) and grandchildren Patrick and Emily and great grandchildren Isla and Jack, and his son Bruce Sayer (Elaine Corria) and grandchild Danielle.
Norman is also survived by his sister-in-law Barbara Gray.
Norman’s love of the arts, travel, and good company enriched every gathering. His generosity, integrity, and ever-present warmth left a lasting impression on all who knew him.
He lived each day inspiring those around him to embrace life with curiosity and kindness. His presence will be deeply missed, but his memory lives on in the stories we tell and the lives he touched. Norman’s life was a testament to enduring love, quiet strength, and a passion for a life well lived. We are forever grateful for the time we had with him.
A private family service will be held. In lieu of flowers, donations in Norman’s memory may be made to a charity of your choice.
“To live in hearts we leave behind is not to die.”
Digital Guestbook
Barbara Gray
Judy Charles
Your Dad, and indeed your Mother as well, epitomized generosity, grace and goodness. The deep love they shared marked their 73 year union, and served as a model of undying love. The loss, though deeply felt, can in no way diminish the way they cared for each other and the depth of attachment to family they shared. May you find comfort in knowing you did everything possible to make this last chapter meaningful.
Judi Tedlie
Thinking of you all at this time of loss and sadness! What a wonderful long life he enjoyed. May he be celebrated with love and some laughter !
Mary Lou Kelley
So sorry for your loss Pam. He sounded amazing! Inspirational.
Brian Sayer
A very lovely tribute to Uncle Norman. He was indeed a fine man who I will remember fondly the times we met over the years. The end of an era.
Carmen Letourneau
My condolences to you and your family,Pam.
What a loving obituary. Your dad was a remarkable person who will be missed.
Shelagh Sayer and all our family
Your dad was such a lovely man who we all enjoyed meeting over the years. He always made you feel so welcome. He will be sorely missed I know but remembered always.
Julia Loudon
My mother, Evelyn Loudon (nee Grafton) was sorry to hear of Norman's death (which we found by searching on line for news of him, which we have done for many years!). She recognised the photo of him and remembered playing with him when they were children. We are glad to know that he led a long, active and happy life with his wife and family - as has my mother, who is now 100 years old. With best wishes from Evelyn, and from myself, David, Ruth and Angus at this sad time.
A loving caring husband father and brother-in-law.
Rest in peace.