It is with great sadness that we announce the passing of Penelope (Pennie) Younger at the age of 86. She leaves behind, her devoted husband of 65 years and best friend, David, and her loving children Caroline, Jamie, and Charlie (Jodi). She is predeceased by her loving sister Ann and her parents Isobel & Guy Smith. She will be deeply missed by her grandchildren Robert (Erica), Emily (Brendan), Cailin (Zam), and Liam, and by her great-grandchildren Jack and Nelly. She will also be deeply missed by her sister Pam, her cousins, nieces, nephews, and many friends.
Born in Rye, New York, Pennie was the daughter of a diplomat and spent her youth in England, Trinidad, Italy, Cuba and the United States, collecting languages and friendships. Her happiest childhood days were summers in Tadoussac and Quebec where she met her greatest love, David.
A devoted wife, mother and home maker, Pennie was known for her warmth, generosity, and sense of fun. The "hostess with the mostest", she was famous for her beautifully prepared dinner parties, macaroni & cheese, and date squares. She loved playing tennis, bridge, and Scottish country dancing. She adored family time at McGregor Lake where she kayaked, walked in the woods, and fed her friendly ducks, all affectionally named Quackers.
Pennie was also deeply devoted to her community. For many years she volunteered with the choir at St. Bartholomew's Church, the IODE, a local retirement home, giving her time and energy to help others live with dignity, courage, and hope. She really enjoyed caring for other people's babies after her children grew up. Her compassion and quiet leadership left a lasting mark on everyone she served.
Memorial Service will be held Saturday October 25, 2025 at St. Bartholomew's Anglican Church, 125 MacKay St, Ottawa, at 1 p.m. followed by reception at the Parish Hall. Interment will be held Monday October 27, 2025 at Beechwood Cemetery at 10 a.m.
In lieu of flowers, donations to Alzheimer’s Society of Canada, St. Bartholemew’s Anglican Church or the charity of your choice will be appreciated.
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Heather Toswell
Agnes and David Shaw
What a rich and full life your Mom had, Caroline. Her legacy lives on in the stories you tell your children and grandchildren. May these memories give you some comfort at this difficult time.
Catherine Gillespie
My sincere condolences to you, Caroline and all your family. She was a loving, caring soul. May she rest, with our Lord, in peace.
Louise Simmonds
I am so very sorry for your loss Caroline and of course for your father's loss. I'm sure it has been a very difficult time for all of you, Please know that I am thinking of you and hoping you're sharing fond remembrances of your Mom. She sounds like a lady well worth knowing. God Bless you all.
Louise Zerter
Penny’s love, care, culinary talents and gracious hospitality have, and will continue to shine through her family. You are all a beautiful testament to her wonderful influence and sense of community. May you find comfort in each other and know that you have friends for support whenever you wish to reach out.
Dorothy Nemeth
Caroline, thinking of you and your family at this difficult time. What a wonderful tribute to your mother!
Dale Thorington
My condolences for your loss. Your mother’s love and guidance will live on in your heart and mind. May her memory bring you comfort during this difficult time.
Janet Martin
My deepest sympathies are with you during this time of loss. I hope you can find reassurance in the care of your friends and family, and allow the loving memories you have of your mother to help you through this time.
Such a wonderful, fulfilling, long life that your Mom had Caroline. Thinking of you and sincere condolences to you & the whole Family.