With profound sadness, the family of Gregers “Greg” Peter Ashley announces his unexpected passing on June 1, 2025, in Ottawa, ON, at the age of 67.
Greg is lovingly remembered by his wife of 39 years, Lisa; his children, Marilyn, Michael, and Peter; his sister Jane (Les); his brother Tom (Linda); and his beloved nieces, Rosemary and Grace, and nephew, Jacob. He was predeceased by his parents, Peter and Mary, and will be deeply missed by his extended family and many dear friends.
Born in Vancouver, BC, and raised in Pointe-Claire, QC, Greg had a lifelong love of storytelling. He often shared humorous accounts of adventures and mischief from all stages of life. Childhood stories included playing every sport imaginable with neighbourhood kids until their moms called them home for dinner. He liked to recall his gritty summer job cleaning sludge from tankers at the Procter and Gamble factory, where he’d reward himself by bringing home and eating a cake every night. Greg was also proud of his years at McGill University, where he played on the football team as a kicker. Never one to pass up a good thing, he even completed a master’s degree just to extend his eligibility and keep playing. The record-setting 51-yard field goal he kicked stood for many years—a fact he was always happy to mention. Quick-witted and full of classic dad jokes, Greg was a constant source of smiles, laughter, and the occasional good-natured groan.
Professionally, Greg built a career as an environmental engineer and later as a Senior Vice President at MHPM (now Colliers Project Leaders). He was respected for his practical wisdom and the personal responsibility he felt for the success and well-being of his colleagues and their families.
Greg was happiest outdoors — hiking, cycling, skiing, kayaking, scuba diving, and exploring new trails. He was endlessly handy, taking on home and cottage improvement projects, often recruiting friends and family to help. After a day of working hard, Greg loved sharing a glass of wine or a cold beer with those he cared about.
A natural lifelong learner, Greg welcomed new challenges with curiosity and determination. Recent pursuits included scuba diving with his brother and playing pickleball with friends. Travel was another great joy in his life. He explored places like Japan, cruised through the glaciers of Alaska, hiked in Arizona, kayaked in Belize, snorkeled in Roatán, and often returned to his ancestral home of Denmark to visit his extended family. Many of these adventures were shared with his wife and children and his close-knit group of university friends, affectionately known as The Gerbils, along with their partners, The Bobcats.
Greg also appreciated the quieter moments, like working on a crossword puzzle with a cat on his lap or watching TV with a jar of peanuts or a bag of Cheezies.
Greg and Lisa shared 39 years of partnership. Together, they navigated the joys and chaos of raising triplets, travelled the world, and supported one another. In many ways, they were opposites—Lisa has a calm, steady presence and a talent for keeping things running smoothly, while Greg brought energy and a readiness to jump into action (usually following her carefully crafted lists). Their differences weren’t just complementary, they were what made them such a strong, balanced team. Greg often said how lucky he felt to have Lisa by his side.
He was a generous and hands-on father. When his kids were young, he brought them on all kinds of adventures. They sneaked into neighbourhood construction sites and set off on spontaneous missions to new parks. As they got older, he stayed closely involved in their lives. He was eager to hear about their work, studies, and latest interests. One of his favourite tricks was to take them on a long drive, knowing they couldn’t escape the car or his questions. Greg remained the person you called in an emergency. He helped with buying cars, moving houses, and navigating first-time home searches. He was incredibly proud of each of his children and never missed a chance to talk about them. After spending time with friends or colleagues, he would often come home saying, “Your ears must have been burning—I couldn’t stop talking about you.”
Greg’s life will be celebrated on Friday, June 13th, at 1:00 p.m. at Beechwood Cemetery, 280 Beechwood Avenue, Ottawa. A reception will follow from 2:00–4:00 p.m. In his memory, please consider spending time in nature, helping a friend with a project, or sharing a glass of wine and a laugh. In lieu of flowers, donations can be made to the Alzheimer's Society of Canada, a charity he felt deeply about.
Digital Guestbook
Alain Gregoire
Fred Wijsman
Dear Lisa and Family, our deepest condolences.
Greg was a sincere and genuine person, and I enjoyed working with him tremendously. Greg provided great support not just to me personally, but to all the staff and we all were thankful for his leadership. We also appreciated Greg's unique sense of humour, and of course his gift of conversation :). I am very thankful for having known Greg, and will miss him dearly.
Fred and Kim
Lyne Gillespie
My deepest sympathies to Lisa, Peter, Michael, Marilyn and family. My thoughts and prayers are with you!
Steve Roebuck
I was one of those kids who was mad about playing sports all day long and I have such fond memories of that time on Kipling Ave and of Greg. While I was a few years younger he always made sure the teams were fair, little guys got their chance and no one got too out of hand although we'd gladly argue outs and goals while playing street hockey, 500 or the running game. I always remember, and joked with him, about his obsession of practicing his 'soccer skills' but he was good for sure. So sad to hear of his sudden passing and such a shock. My brother Dave and sister Shelagh are also deeply saddened as well. Greg aka 'Hearse' or 'Snotty' was one of the great guys - my deepest condolences to the family and all his friends.
Lisa
Greg, We had 41 years together and I will remember the good times we had as a couple, as parents, and as a family. For me, our relationship was about love, respect, honesty, intentionality, trust and integrity. Rest peacefully. Lisa
Dave Stubbs
I'm copying this from my Facebook post of August 9:
I was saddened beyond words today to learn, two months after the fact, of the unexpected passing on June 1 of Greg Ashley, one of the best friends of my youth. He was 67, not quite six months younger than me.
News of Greg’s passing was sent to me on June 7 by his sister, Jane, but her note unfortunately bounced to a digital folder where I missed it until today.
Greg was a next-door neighbour for many years. We swam and played ball at Cedar Park Heights, enjoyed endless games of road hockey on our six-house cul-de-sac in Pointe-Claire and traded countless baseball cards in his garage.
(I seem to remember giving up way too much for his 1970 Andy Etchebarren Baltimore Orioles card, but I needed it to collect the entire World Series-champion team.)
We compared how well we shovelled our driveways; his was always cleaner.
I heckled Greg for being one of the few kids in the area who played soccer those days. He got great mileage out of the fact that on the Friday afternoons that we walked the nine blocks home from John Rennie High School, I was hauling a trombone for weekend practice.
We spent five years together at Rennie, starting in the fall of 1969, graduating in June 1974. Greg went into engineering, I chose a career in communications.
Greg and I were in touch on Facebook, though we’d sometimes drift apart for stretches, lives taking us in different directions.
My heart goes out to his wife, Lisa, their three children, members of his family and Greg’s sister and brother, Jane and Thomas.
My condolences to Greg's family and friends. I have known Greg since 2002 when he hired me at Delcan and we later reconnected at Colliers Project Leaders (MHPM). I always appreciated his guidance and advice. Very sad that he left us too soon.