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Submitted by kmacdonald@bee… on Thu, 08/08/2024 - 01:38:PM

On Wednesday, July 31st, we lost a good man. Many will have noticed the cessation of his ‘almost daily’ email sends of jokes, trivia, anecdotes – Bob loved to make someone smile; or better, to laugh out loud.

Robert Jackson Milling left our world on his terms and with his customary courage, clarity and dignity. Bob was the youngest of four sons, born to Eugene E. Milling and Mary A. Balfour on the last day of 1935 in Lindsay, Ontario. Predeceased by brothers Gordon and Harry, and sister-in-law Joan, he leaves behind his dear brother David, sister-in-law Iris, sister-in-law Ann, sister-in-law Elaine, sister-in-law Barb and brother-in-law Rod.

Bob is already missed by his wife and Life Partner, Shirley - together 52 years; four loved sons – Stephen (Judy), Dennis (Debbie), Gary (Marise), and Lee (Laurie); 6 granddaughters: Serena, Shannon, Erin, Paulina, Nicole, Dani Lee; 1 step-grandson: Zachary, and 2 great-granddaughters: London and Scarlett; many nieces, nephews, cousins, great-nieces, great-nephews – Bob would have loved to share more time with all.

Employed with the City of Sudbury, then McMaster University, and on to the City of Ottawa, Bob had a fulfilling career in Computer Systems Design. Life-long membership in DPMA (data processing management association) offered participation in innovative software design. Known as a dog-lover with genuine respect for animals overall, Bob was invited to oversee animal equity care with both the National Research Council on the Animal Care Committee and IRAP (Industrial Research Assistance Program), which he found very rewarding during retirement.

Bob’s most valued assets, alongside his cars, were his friendships. He leaves behind a wealth of friends – all treasured. Of course, to fit in well, it was best if you talked about cars; Bob was very much a ‘car guy’. All life events were measured by what car he was driving at the time of the event.
Bob was further defined by his interest in ‘all things politics’. Early on, he learned that politics is, more than anything, about people, and that essentially everything in life encircles people. And music; Bob had a wonderful appreciation for music with a remarkable ability to carry a tune quite perfectly. On any given day, at virtually any place, he carried a tune in his head, and he whistled that tune … while he worked, while he walked, while he sat. You could always find Bob - he was the quiet whistler.
Bob was an avid reader and kept up to date on what was going on in the world; thus, had good knowledge of what had gone on in the world. His head was filled with trivia, facts and anecdotes, both interesting and amusing. He was an educator as much as he could be an entertainer. With his excellent command of the English language, Bob was a true ‘connoisseur of wit’.

As pastimes, Bob was a fan of Formula 1 and a fan of baseball - supportive of the Blue Jays even this past year; and he was a supporter of the Toronto Star.

Bob loved comedies and he loved long car drives.

In essence, Robert Jackson Milling’s life is measured by knowledge, experience and stories.

Bob had eternal hope to stay in this world; he absolutely hated leaving us.

“Bob – may you stay Forever Young”

Special thanks and recognition to Bob’s excellent and pragmatic health care professionals with Ottawa Hospital:
Dr. Eoghan O’Shea – Family Physician
Dr. Shawn Malone – Radiation Oncologist
Dr. Lara Williams and her Surgical Team - Dr. R.Musselman, Dr.H.Moloo, Dr.I.Raiche
Dr. Rachel Goodwin -Medical Oncologist
Dr. Carolyn Nessim – Surgical Oncologist
Dr. Gary Small – Cardiologist
Carefor Services of Ottawa, Belfast location

Cremation has taken place.

A Celebration of Life is in planning.

In lieu of flowers, Bob would propose you donate to a foundation or charity that you believe will make our world a better place. Then have a cold beer and take enjoyment in your day as it unfolds.

 

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Paulina (Milling) Cornejo

I will miss grandpa Bob. He was surrounded by love til the end which is all we can ask for. I will love and miss him and always keep him in my heart.

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Marie Campeau

I have fond memories working with Bob. He was kind caring person. I will miss his sense of humor and regular email jokes. My deepest sympathy to the family. Thoughts are with you.

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Janette Foo

My deepest condolence to you and your family.

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Ed Frankowski

It was such a pleasure knowing Bob
We certainly had some wonderful conversations and many great visits.
He will be missed by all that got to know him

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Diane Kaiser-Trottier

I am so sorry to hear of Bob’s passing. Running into you both on the streets of Dunbarton Court was always a pleasure. You both always had kind words, a warm smile and were great neighbours!! Shirley I hope you are doing okay. This is quite a loss. Take good care. My sincerest condolences.
Diane (Beau’s mom)

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Submitted by kmacdonald@bee… on Sun, 08/11/2024 - 11:30:AM

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Dave and Corina

Hi Shirley,

Please accept our deepest condolences.

Bob always made me laugh; such a funny guy.

I always looked forwards to discussing the Blue Jays with him.

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Anne Irwin

Hi Shirley,

We have just come back into town from the cottage that has  no internet to see this. We are very sorry to hear about Bob and about your loss, please let us know if you need anything.

Hugs to you!

Anne and Kevin

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Jeanne et Michel Matte

Good day Shirley,

I would like to offert my sincere sympathy to

 you and family.I keep a good souvenir of Bob

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Submitted by kmacdonald@bee… on Sun, 08/11/2024 - 11:32:AM

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Christiane Brasseur

Shirley,

When I see you, I will share some fo his jokes that we will always remembered.

Bob was  always complementing our cars .He said that VW are the best!

As you said, he always add our smile to our day.

He was such a nice person.

 

We were sad when we heard about his death.

 

Take care Shirley 

If you need any help/ support, you can count on us.

 

Regards,

Christiane

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Submitted by kmacdonald@bee… on Sun, 08/11/2024 - 11:34:AM

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Peter

Hi Shirl,

So sorry to hear about Bob. When I last saw you guys back in August 2018 Bob was in really good spirits. I didn’t hear it often but I’m going to miss that unique laugh of his. I’m thinking about heading back that way next summer. I hope we can get the gang together if I do. Take care of yourself…Peter

P.S. Not sure if you remember but I always said the same thing to Bob whenever I saw him. So, for one last time, I would like to say, “Goodbye, Millings Dear Heart”!

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