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Submitted by justine on Wed, 09/06/2023 - 04:11:PM

Passed away, peacefully at the age of 89 with family by her side, September 2, 2023.  Born on the north mountain of Nova Scotia in Glenmont on September 28, 1933, and the eldest child of late Caswell Wood and Elsie (Brewster).  Phyllis was pre-deceased by her husband J.W. Smallwood (Bill) and her sister Freda who passed away in 2019, and is survived by her two brothers Glen Wood (Judy) and Gerald Wood (Elsie) and her children; Joseph Smallwood (Zenonia Fulham) and Elaine Smallwood (Gary Maheux) and her four grandchildren Laura Conway (Pascal Bisson) and Alex Conway, and Genevieve Smallwood and Christian Smallwood, and many nieces and nephews.

Phyllis entered into her military service in 1951 as a radar technician in the RCAF, and was awaiting her call to duty in Korea.    In her posting to Summerside, P.E.I. in 1953 she met the love of her life, J.W. Smallwood (Bill) an air force navigator.  Within months they were married and Phyllis was required to honorably release from the military since the rules did not allow for married spouses in the military.  She supported her husband’s career in the military and they were posted to Montreal, and then Winnipeg where her two children were born. On their overseas posting to Germany and France they spent summers in Italy and travelling throughout Europe.  Made lifelong friends with the Fabbro and Ruck Families. When Bill retired from the military in 1966, they made their home in Nova Scotia for several years until Bill was transferred to Ottawa in 1972.

Phyllis had several careers, Birks, RCA, Sears, then “award winning”, Real Estate Salesperson with Canada Trust where Bill joined her and they became the successful and innovative “Smallwood Team” long before teams had been heard of.  They were nearly the first cell phone customers in Ottawa with phones in their cars, word processing computers and photocopier and fax machine in their home in the 1980’s. They would do anything for their clients, “nothing is too far or too difficult” was the motto they lived by.

Phyllis retired in the 1990’s due to arthritis, and within 2 years Bill followed her into retirement where they spent their remaining years spoiling their grandchildren, travelling, entertaining and enjoying their life together. They are dearly missed by all friends and family.

Thank you for the loving care provided by Dr. Bocz & the nurses and staff of the 2nd floor memory floor at Timberwalk Retirement Home.

Friends are invited to attend the Graveside Service for Phyllis on Saturday, September 16, 2023 in the National Military Cemetery of Beechwood Cemetery, 280 Beechwood Avenue, Ottawa at 10:00AM, with a reception to follow. For those not able to attend in person, you may register for the Live Streaming at the following link.

In lieu of flowers a donation to “The Dementia Society of Ottawa and Renfrew County” or the Canadian Cancer Society would be appreciated.

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Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Wed, 09/06/2023 - 04:46:PM

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AnnaMarie and Martin Desroches

The world has lost a wonderful woman. She will be sadly missed by all of her family and friends.

Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Wed, 09/06/2023 - 06:35:PM

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Eugene and Jennifer Wood

Aunt Phyllis,,, always smiling and laughing whenever we were with her. Loved her(and Bill) always and forever.

Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Thu, 09/07/2023 - 09:57:AM

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Marilyn ( Dempsey) Al Gray

Condolences to Family and Friends. Sorry for your Loss.

Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Mon, 09/11/2023 - 01:48:PM

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Amona Ridings

Condolences from the Ridings family...

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Paul Conway

Phyllis was a huge part of our family for decades, and a wonderful person in every respect. Ever generous, Phyllis would have to be restrained at Christmas, showering our children Alex & Laura with presents. In fact, our daughter was gifted a pink mountain bike when Laura was only a few weeks old. Phyllis's Clam Chowder and holiday meals were the stuff of legend, She & Bill shared their home with our family for several years while travelling, and always had a room available when I visited the children in Ottawa. We will all miss her ready smile, love and affection. Rest in peace Phyllis.

Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Tue, 09/12/2023 - 08:57:PM

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Joann Hudson and Family, Sheri Prout and Family.

Remembering Phyllis with special memories...she was a beautiful soul...

Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Thu, 09/14/2023 - 06:13:PM

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Anne and Harvey Heaton

Our family has always been separated by distance but that never stopped the shared love. I remember Auntie Phil and Uncle Bill’s last visit to Nova Scotia. We always managed to spend quality time together. Rest in peace Auntie Phil, together with your beloved husband again. Love and blessing, Anne and Harvey Heaton and family

Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Thu, 09/14/2023 - 11:15:PM

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Christine & Louis Dickenson

Phyllis was truly one of the nicest people you could hope to meet. She was a very special woman and we feel so fortunate to have known her. Louis and I extend our deepest sympathy to you and your family

Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Fri, 09/15/2023 - 11:26:AM

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Paul Richardson

A truly special woman ! I ,as I am sure there are many others, always enjoyed time spent with her and will truly miss her!

Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Fri, 09/15/2023 - 08:30:PM

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Mary and Paul Ruck

Your devotion to friends and family was truly inspiring. We hope your flight to heaven was swift and safe. Our deepest sympathy to the family.
Love Mary & Paul

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