With great sadness, the Thorhauge clan announces the passing of its patriarch on June 20, 2025. A lifelong friend to many and a respected pillar of numerous communities, Rolf passed away at home at the age of 84 after a courageous battle with cancer. Rolf is survived by his adoring wife and life companion for over six decades, Charlene, plus their four boys Ralph (Leslie), Greg (Tina), Mike (Sarah) and Doug (Debbie). Rolf was known for his big heart and will be fondly remembered by 11 Grandchildren Casey (Peter), Meghan, Sydney, Ryan (Patti), Alena (David), Tara (Justin), Liam, Jack, Isabel, Scott, Matthew (Rayne), Step-Grandchildren Matthias, Maia and Great-Grandson, Henry. Rolf cultivated personal relationships when hosting countless social get-togethers with Charlene and was generous with guests through sharing his appreciation of many finer things in life including his love for art & music, food & wine, sports & entertainment plus current events & historical facts. Rolf had a passion for building "Rolf's Wine Cellars" and always enjoyed a funny story (or two)! Rolf’s professional life was guided by “Maintiens Le Droit” and fulfilled by his mission to promote integrity via “A safe, secure and prosperous Canada, through trusted intelligence and advice”. The family wishes to thank Rolf’s medical teams of The Ottawa Hospital for providing such excellent care - we’re all so grateful for extra time with him. Extended family & friends are invited to celebrate Rolf’s magnificent life at the Beechwood RCMP National Memorial Cemetery (280 Beechwood Ave., Ottawa) on Thursday July 10, 2025 (visitation 1:00-2:40pm; service/speeches 2:40-3:40pm; graveside ceremony 4pm). In lieu of flowers, charitable donations in Rolf’s memory can be made to the Canadian Cancer Society or to Carefor Health & Community Services.
Digital Guestbook
Ralph Thorhauge (Jr)
Sharon/Jerry Carlisle
Both Jerry and I are saddened by the news of Rolf’s passing .We were so fortunate to have spent some time with Rolf and Charlene over the past year. Our heartfelt condolences to Charlene and his entire family .
Leigh Anderson
Rolf was a great friend and wonderful neighbour those many years ago.
Jim & Krys Gough
I worked with Rolf, socialized with him and bought my 1987 Ford Probe through him (great car). A great guy with a big heart.
Our thoughts are with you Charlene. We will be overseas on the 10th but we shall be there in spirit.
Don & Lillian Melvin
Have lost a great friend, but we sure have great memories
Phyllis and John Cathcart
Sincere condolences Charlene and family. We remember Rolf fondly. We spent many happy times together. May your memories bring you comfort at this sad time.
Edmund Rockburne
My condolences' to Ralph's family.
I worked with Ralph in CSIS for many years and he was a real gentleman and a pleasure to be with. He was responsible for me to obtain my first new car through his Fathers Automobile Business. Rest in peace my friend.
Mary and Jim Pomeroy
Ralph was a wonderful friend and co-worker. We have lots of fond memories of great times. Our sincerest condolences, Charlene and family.
Tod Hoffman
I had the privilege to work with Rolf as a young IO and he was always kind and generous. A truly good man.
Colleen M.
So sorry for your loss Ralph, to you and your family. Very nice picture from his early RCMP days.
We miss you Dad! Love Ralph